Life's just another joke
Birkarnelzelzit Thiyam *
Call me names but life is nothing what I thought since beginning. Life never made me consider ‘planning’ to be a serious thing. It has always made me ask why everyday seem to have different stories treasured for me. Today’s article might seem unlinked at times. It’s the continuous, crazy thought process and answers I figured myself upon nagging my soul.
Uniqueness is not always the difference but at times it’s that single step ahead of all the similarities. Never be afraid of taking those small life changing steps. Anger might be the fear of unknown at times but also can be the key to open the unknown at times.
Life is not always about doing everything we wished, it’s at times postponing for tomorrow believing that you will wake up for sure. It’s fun to live just like the crowd at times.
Hunger can be caused by starvation or greed, it’s just that the first gets full after the meal and the other never gets full. Starve now to have the biggest swing of hunger to reach your dreams. The whole shoe might give you all the comfort but only those with thick and good sole are used for long walks.
So, life’s strength is not defined by how many connections you have around you but what you went through; what’s under & behind your present. Also, remember that it only takes a moment to go in the history books but days to reach that moment.
Do you know when love happens? When people fall in love with their dreams? Love happens when you are ready to accept the two sides of the known and the unknown. The best songs are not those sung by the best singers but those with the most relatable lyrics. Life’s not about choosing the best but what matters to you the most.
Being wise is all about watering your intelligence while confidence fences your wobbly decisions. It’s not always between the right and the wrong but between which’s better. The early night gives the longest dinner time; always find an excuse to be happy.
Sometimes it’s really good to be different because no one will expect you to be like them. Perspectives are not the ultimate definitions of anything but just the angles that favour you. And the world itself is 3D, so there is always the other side that you fail to view or the side that fails to please your wants.
The best feeling comes when you stand against the wind, not with the direction of the wind. You will never change until you stop learning lessons from other’s failure because that will only create ‘Cant’s’ in your mind.
Try yourself, fail more and get your own lessons. If you feel chained, it’s not the iron chain you need to break but leave your habitual laziness which now have become your lifestyle that you wished to not have but still do, coz it comforts you.
Man who believe; tries the impossible, for the man waters his optimistic wills to love the unknown comings. Balancing is the only fuel that works for consistency.
No matter how much speed you accelerate, if you don’t balance with the mass, all the accelerations will lead to the decentralization of the mass: your life’s hard work might go away in a blink. The only way to be a winner is to accept that you are great not greater.
It’s very easy to float but to swim, you need to cultivate the fear of drowning.
The best time to give up in life is when greed poisons your gears of passions. You will not settle down in life just because you stopped working but when you reach that orbit where you can balance between greed and growth.
This article might be a lot with unlinked tentacles, but that’s the nature of life. Understand this mess to keep up your mass, water your will to break the walls & break your frame before life breaks you with frames. You aren’t what you were but what you can be.
* Birkarnelzelzit Thiyam wrote this article for The Sangai Express
The writer is an International Awardee and also a major in International Business Marketing from Algonquin, Ottawa, Canada.
He is also the director of The Oratory Academy, and the founder of International Youth Alliance, based in Canada.
He can be reached at birkarnelzelzitthiyam3073(AT)gmail(DOT)com
This article was webcasted on 22 April 2023
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