Let this year be your year

Birkarnelzelzit Thiyam *

Living in the world of choices, we sometimes are left choice-less. Living in this crowed world, we feel clouded with loneliness. Living in this realistic world, dream distracts when we are surrounded by the averages.

Seen and heard a lot posting in social media about new year goals and to do lists. But this is not the first year but ever since year existed. How many times you have made new year’s goal and given up by the end of the first week of the year? How many times you have postponed things for the following year? Let me break it down, new year is just another day of your life and nothing much of the blessing that will curve you to the edge of the heaven.

Walls make you safe when surrounded with, but also can cut you off from growth. Luxury doors are seemingly wonderful to look at but it’s weak lock will degrade its value.

It’s amazing to see the forest pictures, but no one sees the pain of the photographer that took the picture. It’s easy to blame doctors those who missed saving the live but no one appreciates the doctor who just saved one. It’s easy to fall in love with a person but the real deal comes for how long you can fall.

Birds can sing on the branch for they trust their wings not the branch. A good singer never blames the mic, a good footballer never blames the ball, a good doctor never bargains for the fees, a good teacher is always the funny teacher, a good barber sings while he cuts, a good writer makes a lot of grammatical mistakes, a good driver blames his starring not the road.

Winning is a feeling, losing is an illusion, happiness is success, crying is sharing, sharing is caring, caring is a habit, habit is a blessing, problems are situational questions, hurdles are thickly wrapped gift items.

People who wait gets into the habit of waiting – who keeps waiting by standing over the opportunity. Opportunity comes to every person but only the prepared ones grab those. The hungry ones create their own opportunities to expand their kingdom.

Those to dares to fail – wins and those who cares to win – fails. But those who strives to grow conquers. There are people who cries for those they don’t but others have, without realising what they have but others don’t. There are people who says they are poor by standing in-front of a beggar. There are people who thinks their goal is just to be ahead of someone not to be on the top of their abilities.

Life is nothing but a movie, if you can define you and yours. Your body is not you but yours, so control that and make that your slave, let your body do what you want, don’t let the pain on your body effect your decision of using the slave in the way you want. This seems theoretical but many winners have tried and said it worked.

By now you must be wanting to try it just because I said many have tried and it worked, there lies the point, you never want to be the first to try or to lead but to just wait for safe roots. Trust me, as long as you read journals for tips to be a leader, you are just trying to be the best follower but not the leader.

Love the person who you want to love, kill the hate by giving love, love the hater to kill hates and never confuse between love and like. If growth is what you seek in life, love is what you need – loving what you want to be and what you are happy doing.

If success is a goal, it dies after reaching, if winning is a prize, it ends on the wall not at your heart. Let this new year be the best year and remember, January 1st was just a day next to 31st December not something that came with full blessing and motivation, let every day be your new year and never stop growing.